Let's just have a real talk.

I used to obsess over having the prettiest website. But I'm over that now. It always made things feel stale, and I've accepted I'm not a website designer. So this is just me, talking to you.

Hi. I'm Dave. Nice to meet you. And thank you for being here.

I have a few hunches about you, though.

First, I think you already know you need help with your money. That's why you're reading these words on this webpage at this exact moment in your life.

I suspect you know that the budgets you tried weren't the answer. I think you know that how you're currently handling your finances is not working.

Because, again, you're here.

You probably fall into one of two camps.

Either you have debt that is causing you a lot of strain. Or you make enough money where debt isn't really the issue.

But even then, you still feel negative emotion. You don't really know where your money is going. You don't know where to start.

I have a hunch about the young entrepreneurs reading this, too. I think you're good at making money. I think you're intelligent. And I think you know you could figure out the money part if you put your mind to it.

After all, look at everything you've accomplished by putting your mind to it.

But the problem is that you're not putting your mind to it. Your mind wants to do the thing it wants to do. Not the money thing.

So you never get around to dealing with it. The lack of financial direction is starting to feel more and more painful. And yet, you still don't get around to it.

Getting help doesn't feel great either. Because you feel like you should be able to do this yourself.

But if you're an entrepreneur, a husband, a wife, a parent, working a 9-to-5, or anything in between, you're starting to realize that figuring it out alone is no longer the best choice.

You know deep down that the answer is to have another human being, someone who is not in your family, be invested in your financial success.

Someone who understands the ADHD struggle. The money struggle. Who is trained in financial matters but also passionate about the emotional side of money. Someone who will put in the real, deeply personalized effort to figure out how to get you financially on track. Whatever it takes.

Because I know that if I was letting someone into my own finances, I would want assurances that they were going to take the time to really understand the weird and confusing nuances about me. The stuff that only a few people on earth really understand.

So here I am, offering to help.

Your first step is to schedule a Money Clarity Call.

I don't do free consultations anymore. I did that for a long time. It led to a lot of meetings with people who weren't really serious. A lot of no-shows. A lot of me feeling drained and unable to show up the way I know you'll need me to show up.

So the consultation call costs $197.

This way, we're both incentivized to show up.

The fact that you paid a non-trivial amount will instantly activate something in your brain that says: now is the time. You're going to want a return on your investment.

And I'm incentivized too. I'm grateful someone put their nearly blind trust in me. I'm motivated to show up, knowing that you're serious and ready to go.

It also makes me want you to get real value out of the time we spend together, even if you don't sign up for a coaching package.

In this call, you'll get someone who is invested and ready to listen. Your story. Your pain points. Your goals. Your hopes. Your fears. All of it.

And then I turn around and take what I've learned about you and design a coaching proposal that is genuinely tailored to what you, the unique individual who cannot be put into a box, needs to have success.

That proposal alone provides you with value. It tells you what you need to do, even if you decide to go do it alone or with someone else's help.

And here's what's great: you've paid me for my time and effort, and for me, that's enough. I don't feel like I have to pressure you into a sale or convince you to do coaching. You'll do the coaching package if you're ready for it. Plain and simple.

So for $197, you'll be taking a first step towards the financial life you deserve. One that actually makes a lasting impact on the way you think about and relate to money. Whether you do the coaching or not.

I hope you'll consider taking that first step.

What Happens After the Call

Now, if you do the Clarity Call, you'll get the proposal. 95% of the people I serve have struggles in two broad areas:

1. Behavior
2. Organization and Structure

Most people struggle more in one than the other, but both are usually a culprit. Nearly all the coaching proposals I write deal with both, but depending on your unique situation, your proposal will be weighted appropriately towards dealing with behavior or organization and structure more heavily.

If your struggle is more behavior-weighted...

You're someone who struggles with impulsive spending, sticking to routines, avoids looking at their money, and who tends to feel visceral levels of stress and anxiety at the mere thought of their financial situation.

It often feels pretty hopeless and almost like you just don't have control over the behaviors that deep down you know are hurting your future.

People who have behavior as their primary struggle may actually be quite organized, like organizing, and do well with structure in other areas of their life. The problem is more that there is a chronic financial scarcity that, by necessity, means that any structure or organization they try to impose on their finances does not work.

This would be the classic budget that was brilliantly designed, but was abandoned. The real reason it gets abandoned is that your learned behaviors, coping mechanisms, and deeply wired habits abandon the budget from the jump.

So for those more in this camp, your coaching proposal and roadmap to success is going to be front-loading the emotional, behavioral, and self-discovery work that is prerequisite to having a financial system that can actually be sustained.

If your struggle is more organization and structure-weighted...

You tend to make more money. This often facilitates a situation where there isn't much debt or clear causes of strain, but there is a lot of chaos. Money in multiple accounts, little optimization, no real method, no real plan, no real grasp on where money is going.

Perhaps you have a history of half-baked attempts to fund some goal or create some structure that was overengineered or doomed from the start.

There is still often avoidance and shame, though the shame is more of the "why am I able to do so many things but so stupid in this one thing" variety.

I see this a lot in successful entrepreneurs and high income families with ADHD where there is nothing so painful or threatening that is going to happen in the near term, but there is a growing fear that gets louder and louder as the years go on that there is going to be long term consequences for not actually managing the money and always being in react mode.

People in this camp are often really just feeling in the dark about their situation and can often get to a point where they're scared to find out how bad (or good!) it is.

For people who are more weighted towards this, you'll see that your proposal is focused more on getting organized, designing a cash flow system, automation, and help with implementing and practicing. It's also focused on goals and ensuring automation that is going to help sustainably fund goals that really matter to you.

This call is for you if...

• You've cleared debt before, only to watch it come back
• You earn good money but still feel broke
• You avoid your accounts because looking makes you anxious
• You've tried budgeting apps and abandoned them within a month
• You're tired of feeling like a "smart person who can't figure out money"
• You want someone who gets ADHD, not someone who'll hand you a spreadsheet and say "just track it"
  
  

So here's what happens next.

If you're reading this and something in you is saying "okay, I'm ready," then the next step is simple.

You book the Money Clarity Call. You pay the $197. I send you a short intake form. We get on a call. I listen. You talk. We figure out together whether this is the right fit.

At the end, you get a coaching proposal that's tailored to you. Not a cookie-cutter package. Not a one-size-fits-all plan. A roadmap that actually accounts for how your brain works and what your life looks like.

And if you decide coaching isn't for you right now? That's okay. You still walk away with clarity. You still know what you need to do. The $197 was worth it either way.

I'm not going to tell you this is going to be easy. I'm not going to tell you I have all the answers. But I will tell you this: I've been where you are. I've felt the shame. I've felt the chaos. And I've found a way through.

I'd be honored to help you find yours.

Oh, there is still some more normal website stuff if you keep scrolling. 

Questions? Email me at david@shamelessmoney.com

Your first step is to schedule an ADHD Money Clarity Call

$197 | 60 minutes

This isn't a pitch. It's a real strategy session. You'll walk away with clarity, whether or not we work together.

Why the fee? It keeps us both invested. You show up ready. I show up fully present. And you leave with something useful no matter what.

Who this is for:

• You have ADHD and money feels harder than it should
• You're serious about change, not just browsing
• You're ready to engage and do the work

How people leave this call:

• Relieved to finally talk about money without judgment
• Seen with honest truth delivered with empathy
• Empowered with real clarity and a path forward

After the call, you'll receive a custom coaching proposal with a clear roadmap of what we'd cover together in a coaching package.

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