Finally Get Control of Your Money—Without the Shame

ADHD-focused financial coaching for anyone with ADHD related financial challenges who is ready get a grip and start thriving.  

 

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You Already Know Something Has to Change

You're here because you already know you need help with your money.

That's why you're reading these words on this webpage at this exact moment in your life.

You've tried the budgets. You've downloaded the apps. You've told yourself this time will be different.

But it wasn't. And deep down, you know that how you're currently handling your finances is not working. 

Because, again—you're here.

For a while, you were able to bury your head in the sand and tune out the distant hum of anxiety. Now, your nervous system is sounding the alarm.

And now you have the courage to take action. 

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I Have a Few Hunches About You

You probably fall into one of two camps.

Camp One: The debt is real, and it's heavy.

You have debt that is causing you a lot of strain. It keeps you up at night. It makes you avoid looking at your accounts because the anxiety is easier to push down than face.

Camp Two: The money's there, but so is the chaos.

You make enough where debt isn't really the issue. But you still feel negative emotion. You don't really know where your money is going. You don't know where to start. There's no real plan, no real system, no real sense of control.

Either way, you're stuck in a loop.

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I have a hunch about you too.

You're good at making money. You're intelligent. And you know you could figure out the money part if you put your mind to it.

After all—look at everything you've accomplished by putting your mind to it.

But here's the problem: you're not putting your mind to it.

Your mind wants to do the thing it wants to do. Not the money thing. So you never get around to dealing with it. The lack of financial direction is starting to feel more and more painful. And yet, you still don't get around to it.

Getting help doesn't feel great either. Because you feel like you should be able to do this yourself.

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What Would It Feel Like to Finally Have Clarity?

  • Imagine actually knowing where your money is going without having to opening a spreadsheet
  • Imagine a system designed around how you think, not against it.
  • Imagine having a clear plan that doesn't fall apart in two weeks.
  • Imagine feeling like a competent adult when it comes to money—for the first time in your life.
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Hi. I'm Dave.

I've been where you are. The shame. The chaos. Making good money but having nothing to show for it. Feeling like a smart person who just can't figure out this one stupid thing.

I get it.

I'm also a CFP® and I've worked with hundreds of individuals with ADHD, helping them finally get a grip on their money.

But here's what makes this different: I know the technical side inside and out, and I'm passionate about the emotional side. I'll take the time to understand the weird, confusing nuances about you. The stuff only a few people on earth really get.

Whatever it takes.

So here I am, offering to help. Your first step is the Money Clarity Call.

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Here's the plan

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Book

Schedule your clarity call. Show up. It's $197 for the clarity call. It's not just a say Hi call. It's a real session. More on that below. 

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We Talk

We get on a call. I listen. Your story. Your pain points. Your goals. Your hopes. Your fears. All of it. No judgment.

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Get your Roadmap

I take what I've learned about you and design a coaching proposal that is genuinely tailored to what you need to have success.

And then you can proceed with coaching. Or don't!

Either way you'll feel more empowered. 

Why $197 for the first meeting?

I don't do free consultations anymore. Too many no-shows, too many people who weren't serious. This is the ADHD crowd, after all.

This way, we're both incentivized to show up. You'll want a return on your investment. I'll be motivated to deliver real value—whether or not you sign up for coaching.

I want to help people who are ready to engage and put in the work. You don't have to be perfect. Just motivated.

My favorite part of this job is watching real progress happen. The shift in attitude, the debt shrinking, the bank account growing. When you pay for that first call, it tells me you're serious. And honestly? It makes me excited to meet you and feeling very grateful for your courage and trust. 

What Happens After the Call

You'll get a personalized coaching proposal. Most people I work with have predominant struggle or pain in one of two broad areas:

You know the feeling. Chest tight when you open your bank app. Avoiding the mail because there might be a bill in there. Spending to feel better, then feeling worse. Rinse and repeat.

If this is you, the problem isn't that you don't know how to budget. The problem is that money has become emotionally unsafe. And until we address that, no spreadsheet is going to save you.

But we're also not going to just talk about feelings. We're going to face your finances together—get everything visible, organized, and understandable. You'll know exactly where your money is going, identify the problem areas, and set real goals to work on the behavior side.

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Unpack your money story

Where did your beliefs about money come from? What patterns are running the show? We name them so they lose their power.

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Get full visibility

Using a budgeting app, we pull all your accounts together so you can actually see what's happening. No more guessing.

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Identify problem areas

Where is money leaking? What behaviors are costing you? We map it out clearly.

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Set behavior goals

Not a punishment budget. Real, specific goals that target the patterns we've identified.

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Build a shame-proof system

A spending plan that works with your brain. Automation, buckets, and breathing room built in.

Check any that resonate:

You've struggled with revolving debt for years
You spend to soothe stress, then feel guilty about it
You avoid looking at your accounts because it feels unsafe
You need to understand the why before you can fix the how
You want visibility AND someone to help you process what you see
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You don't need therapy. You need infrastructure.

You're earning good money. Maybe great money. But it's leaking everywhere. Late fees. Surprise tax bills. No idea what's in which account. You've tried apps. You've tried spreadsheets. They all get abandoned within a month because they require too much maintenance.

You don't need motivation. You need a guide who can help you finally build the thing—and actually understand it.

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Get full visibility

You'll connect your accounts to a budgeting app so you can finally see everything in one place—organized in a way that actually makes sense to you.

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Map your cash flow

Where is money actually coming in? Where is it actually going? We get clarity before we build.

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Design your bucket system

Goals. Monthly commitments. Irregular expenses. Flexible spending. Each one gets its own lane.

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Set up automation

Using tools like Sequence and Monarch, you'll build a system that moves money where it needs to go—without you having to think about it every month.

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Create your Infrastructure Map

A visual blueprint of your entire money system. What account does what. What's automated. What needs a quarterly check-in.

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Document everything

So when your ADHD brain forgets how it works in three months, you have a manual you actually wrote.

Check any that resonate:

You make good money but have no idea where it goes
You've tried budgeting apps and abandoned them
You want a system that runs itself—and you're willing to put in the work to build it
You're an entrepreneur or freelancer with irregular income
You need a guide, not someone to do it for you
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Not sure which track fits? That's exactly what the Clarity Call is for.

Book Your Clarity Call

What customers are saying

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I feel empowered and aware of my finances in a way that I've never been before. If anyone isn't sure this is going to help, lemme email them right quick! I'll fix it. 💁🏻‍♀️
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Amanda May
Transformation Coaching Client
I used to think I was just bad with money because I couldn’t stick to a budget. But after getting real clarity and support, I finally feel hopeful. What once felt overwhelming now feels doable. I have tools that make sense for the way my brain works—and for the first time, I actually feel capable.
Kirsten
Transformation Coaching Client
This gave me a whole new understanding of my relationship with money. It wasn’t just about numbers, it helped me see the why behind my habits. I feel more focused and motivated because now I have both the big picture and step-by-step direction. Even if I never followed through perfectly (though I want to), I’d still walk away knowing myself better.
Margaret
Transformation Coaching Client
These materials are incredible. I’d already started exploring my money story in therapy, but the way this framed things brought it to a whole new level. I’ve turned several of the phrases into affirmations on Post-it notes, and I can already feel them starting to shift something in me.
Megan
Transformation Coaching Client
I came in thinking we’d just go debt by debt, budget by budget. But what surprised me most was how helpful the ADHD framing was. This session helped me unpack patterns I hadn’t really articulated before, like why I soothe myself by ordering dinner or spending impulsively. It wasn’t just financial strategy; it was insight. I’m leaving with reframes I didn’t expect, and a lot to think about.
Evan
Transformation Coaching Client
Your First Step

Schedule an ADHD Money Clarity Call

$197
60 minutes

This isn't a pitch. It's a real strategy session. You'll walk away with clarity, whether or not we work together.

Why the fee? It keeps us both invested. You show up ready. I show up fully present. And you leave with something useful no matter what.

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Who this is for

  • You have ADHD and money feels harder than it should
  • You're serious about change, not just browsing
  • You're ready to engage and do the work

How people leave this call

  • Relieved to finally talk about money without judgment
  • Seen with honest truth delivered with empathy
  • Empowered with real clarity and a path forward
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After the call

You'll receive a custom coaching proposal with a clear roadmap of what we'd cover together in a coaching package.