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title: Deeper ADHD Money Work | Shameless Reset
description: "Built for ADHD adults: when the system worked but the pattern came back, the Reset goes deeper. Eight sessions for an ADHD.MoneyMap and a Roadmap that holds."
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[Shameless Money](https://shamelessmoney.com/?hsLang=en) The Shameless Reset 

From $2,997 · 8 sessions · Premium coaching

# You've tried the systems. The system worked. The *pattern* didn't.

 The Shameless Reset is eight one-on-one sessions where we **write your money story**, the real reason money keeps slipping, and build a cash flow system around it. Not more shame, not another fresh start. It's for ADHD adults who've tried every system and watched each one break the same way.

[Start the Shameless Reset](https://shamelessmoney.com/shameless-reset#start) The work that lets the system stick.

**8 sessions** with Dave **Money Story** document **Guarantee** through Session 8

your money story

Underneath, still running

 I'm bad with money. Always have been.

unnamed · runs in the background

Named, in writing

I'm not bad with money. My ADHD brain just looks away until it's a crisis.

the pattern, not the person

named · stops running underneath

Why the system keeps breaking

## The next system will break the *same way* the last one did.

 You've tried systems-only fixes before. The system worked. The pattern came back. That's not a willpower problem and it's not a tools problem. It's the layer underneath that hasn't been named yet.

01

A fourth fresh start, same shame loop.

02

"I'm bad with money" keeps running as an inherited belief.

03

Money decisions still feel paralyzing even when the math is fine.

04

The next system you build collapses by week three, like the last one did.

05

Your long-term savings keep getting traded for short-term peace.

06

The pattern stays unnamed. And unnamed patterns keep running.

The three pieces

## *Money Story · ADHD.MoneyMap™ · Money Roadmap*

Past, present, future. The three pieces the Reset is built around, named in that order because the order matters. You keep all three, and you'll see what they look like just below.

01 · Past

### Money *Story*

where the pattern came from

The inherited beliefs. The day-of-the-week rituals. The pattern that's been running underneath every fresh start. **Named, in writing, so it stops running underneath everything.**

Not therapy · not journaling

02 · Present

### Money *Map*

how the money moves now

Hand-built by Dave once we have the full picture: your real numbers, the story behind them, and how you want money to work. **Goals · Monthly Commitments · Irregular Expenses · Flexible Spending.** Made to fit your real life, not a generic template.

Lives in your portal

03 · Future

### Money *Roadmap*

what comes after the system runs

The step-by-step plan. Goal targets, sequencing, what gets prioritized when. **The Map shows what your money is doing now. The Roadmap shows what comes next.**

Phased · sequenced

**From $2,997** · what you walk away with

## Six things you keep. A system, finally built around *you*.

These previews are drawn from real Resets, with the details changed. Yours will hold your numbers, your beliefs, and your story.

01 · BELIEFS

### Money Beliefs Report

Which inherited beliefs are running you.

Money Beliefs Report

Shameless Money After Session 1

### Money Beliefs Report

Sample client · 4 beliefs identified

1

"Don't worry, we've got you."

Inherited safety net · high pull

2

"Out of sight, out of mind."

Avoidance · high pull

3

"I'm bad with money."

Shame story · medium pull

- **Finally, a name for it.** Not lazy. Not bad with money. A pattern you inherited.
- **And what it quietly costs you.** Seeing it is how it loosens its grip.

02 · STORY

### Money Story document

The pattern, named in writing.

Money Story

Money Story Page 2 of 6

### The safety net, with strings

How the pattern shows up now

"My default response to money worry has been simple. Don't think about it."

In your words

Where it comes from

It started with one message, repeated for years: money is handled, don't ask. So you learned not to look. The not-looking felt like safety, right up until the statement you avoided became the thing you dreaded.

- **The whole story, start to now.** Why money has always felt this way.
- **Read it once and something settles.** This part was never about math.

03 · ROADMAP

### Money Roadmap

The phased plan. Goals, sequenced.

Money Roadmap

Phased plan 2026 → 2030

### Money Roadmap

Goals, sequenced · 7 phases

Clear the credit card$3,250

Pay down the family loan$6,000

Life Happens fund$2,000

Grow to 3 months$10,000+

- **One next thing at a time.** Never the whole mountain at once.
- **Real dollar targets, in order.** So you always know what you're working on.

04 · MAP

### ADHD.MoneyMap

Every dollar, on one screen.

- **Where your money actually goes.** In plain numbers, no guessing.
- **Lives in your portal.** Yours to keep, open any time.

05 · SYSTEM

### Live cash flow system

Built in your real accounts.

- **The accounts and automations, set up with you.** Not a template.
- **It runs on its own once it's on.** The plan does the remembering.

06 · GUIDE

### Field Guide

The handbook you live inside.

- **How your system works, written for you.** In your words, not ours.
- **Open it whenever you forget a step.** Everything's in one place.

Inside the 8 sessions

## Three phases. Eight sessions. *One system* running by the end.

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Sessions 1 – 3 · Story

### Foundation. The deeper conversation. Commitments.

Foundation workshop, then the deeper conversation about the pattern underneath, then commitments that *name what changes*. By Session 3, the story is in writing.

Sessions 4 – 5 · Map & Roadmap

### Walk the ADHD.MoneyMap. Walk the Money Roadmap.

Walk your drafted ADHD.MoneyMap. Walk your Money Roadmap, the step-by-step plan for what comes after the system runs. *Two pieces, made yours.*

Sessions 6 – 8 · Build

### Open accounts. Wire automations. Field Guide.

Open the accounts. Set up the automations. Hand off your Field Guide. *System fully running by Session 8.*

The promise

## If it's not running by Session 8, *we keep working*.

No extra cost. The work runs to completion. **The pattern named, the system built, your ADHD.MoneyMap in your portal, the Field Guide in your hand.**

[Start the Shameless Reset](https://shamelessmoney.com/shameless-reset#start) 8 sessions. Six things you keep. A system that finally fits you.

Reset guarantee Runs by 8 or we keep going, no charge

From someone who's been there

## I'm a CFP® who, for a long time, couldn't keep my *own* money straight.

 Quietly carrying credit card debt I hid from myself. Avoiding the bank app for days at a time, then opening it braced for bad news. Pretending it was fine when it wasn't.

 I was diagnosed with ADHD at 16 and spent a long time trying to outrun it. Reconnecting with it as an adult finally cracked it open. The systems I'd been trained to teach were built for a different kind of brain. Mine needed something else. So did most of my clients'.

 I built the Reset because the third or fourth time a system collapsed on me, I realized the bottleneck wasn't the system. It was **the story underneath, quietly undoing the work every time the system started holding.**

 I get it because I lived it. Once the story gets named, the next system doesn't break the same way.

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Dave DeWitt, CFP®

Built the Unbudget · Has ADHD · CFP®

 Hundreds of ADHD clients. Just the system I had to build to finally get my own money right.

How it works

## 3 steps to a system that *actually sticks*.

01

### Sign up and prep

Pick a payment option and you're in. Before Session 1 you'll do the Money Beliefs assessment and a quick account cleanup.

 Before Session 1

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### Eight working sessions

Story. Map and Roadmap. Build. The pattern gets named. The Map gets drawn. The system goes live.

 Three phases

03

### Run the system

Your Field Guide is the handbook you live inside. The Roadmap shows what comes next.

 Your handbook

[Start the Shameless Reset](https://shamelessmoney.com/shameless-reset#start) The work that lets the system stick.

Pricing

## Two ways to start. Same eight sessions, same *work*.

Pay in full

$2,997

One payment, and you're in.

[Pay in full, $2,997](https://shamelessmoney.com/shameless-reset-checkout-full?hsLang=en)

Payment plan

$697 today

Then $500/mo for 5 months. $3,197 total.

[Choose the payment plan](https://shamelessmoney.com/shameless-reset-checkout-plan?hsLang=en)

Neither is a subscription. The plan is six payments, then you're done.

Every option includes

Money Beliefs Report

Money Story document

The full ADHD.MoneyMap

Money Roadmap

8 working sessions

Live cash flow system

Field Guide written for you

Guarantee through Session 8

Reset isn't for everyone

## If your block is the system or the math, here's a better fit.

If you know why you spend the way you do Unbudget Setup From $1,197 · 3 sessions

The system itself solves it. **You don't need the story unpacked. You just need the system built.**

[Learn about Unbudget Setup](https://shamelessmoney.com/unbudget-setup?hsLang=en)

If you earn well but money sits still The Shameless Builder From $3,497 · 8 sessions

Your block is more about the decision than the feeling. You know the right answer. Trusting it is the hard part, so the money sits in checking. **Builder works on making the decision.**

[Learn about The Shameless Builder](https://shamelessmoney.com/shameless-builder?hsLang=en)

Before

 The pattern keeps coming back.

After

The pattern named. The system built. The work done.

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Financial clarity for ADHD brains.

 Built by Dave DeWitt, CFP®. No commissions, no product sales. Coaching, not advice; we'll tell you when to call a CFP® professional.

#### Start here

- [ADHD.MoneyMap™ · $99](https://adhdmoneymap.com)
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