Fiduciary standard. Plain-English version: legally required to act in your interest, not mine.
Dave DeWitt, CFP®. Adult-diagnosed ADHD. The person behind Shameless Money and the Unbudget, refined across hundreds of ADHD client engagements.
I'm a CFP® who couldn't manage my own money. Depleted UTMA, credit card debt, and the specific shame of being a financial professional who was bad with money in private.
The turning point was realizing I had ADHD, and that most of what I'd been trained to teach was built for a different kind of brain.
That tension isn't something I hide. It's the whole point. The system had to be built by someone who needed it, for people who need it. Otherwise it would have been the same thing as every other budget that doesn't stick.
Across hundreds of ADHD client engagements, the same two patterns keep showing up. Same dynamics underneath. Different shape on the surface.
The pattern is emotional. Shame loop after another overdraft. The story underneath needs unwinding. The Shameless Reset is built for this shape.
The Shameless Reset · From $2,997 Profile 02 · BuilderHigh income, knowledge, stuck on putting it to work. The right answer is known. Trusting it is the problem. The Shameless Builder works on the decision layer.
The Shameless Builder · From $3,497Same ADHD brain dynamics. Different surface problem.
Fiduciary standard. Plain-English version: legally required to act in your interest, not mine.
I built the Unbudget because the standard playbook quietly failed me. I use my own patterns as reference.
No commissions. No product sales. The work is the work. You'll see every price on the site.
The avoidance. The shame spiral after another overdraft alert. The strange experience of being "the smart one" who can't seem to do this one thing.
None of it is a character flaw. It's an executive function mismatch with tools built for a different brain. Until you've built tools for the brain you actually have, the loop keeps running.
I'm a fiduciary CFP®, adult-diagnosed with ADHD, with hundreds of ADHD client engagements behind Shameless Money. No commissions. No product sales. Just the system I had to build for myself, refined across the people who needed it the most.
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